Over the past few months, ever since my tryst with science began; i've been going through this inner tumult and I happened to stumble upon some really deep and wise realisations… I decided to word one of them, which i've titled as 'To be happy'
We are all very different humans, with different likes, dislikes, priorities, aspirations and weaknesses. But end of the day, we are all sad souls; because trust me, no one is happy. It has often occured to me that life/god is being unfair and shoving all the sadness only on me. But that is where we all go wrong, god is fair. God gifts us troubles and problems in boxes of the same size, same volume, same price and same quality; just that he wraps them differently.
The poor labourer, who might be working on some building might be dying for money, on the contrary the stinking rich businessman, who travels in an Audi everday might have some other issue that is giving him sleepless nights. But once again, we all have something that still makes us want to hold on. We all have problems that are very different, but life also offers everyone something special, something beautiful to hold on to. It's only when we turn a blind eye to these lovely things does the sadness quotient take over the happiness quotient.
If you are sad, trust me every one else is also going through something which is very similar to your situation. Our priorities are different, which makes it appear as if the other man's troubles are easier than ours but no, that is never true.
A happy man is the one who doesn't allow this worm of sadness to dig into his apple of happiness.
Happiness is all in the mind. Not everyone can do this, if you've been able to; I salute you. {P.S: I still haven't} but what's the harm in trying?
We are all very different humans, with different likes, dislikes, priorities, aspirations and weaknesses. But end of the day, we are all sad souls; because trust me, no one is happy. It has often occured to me that life/god is being unfair and shoving all the sadness only on me. But that is where we all go wrong, god is fair. God gifts us troubles and problems in boxes of the same size, same volume, same price and same quality; just that he wraps them differently.
The poor labourer, who might be working on some building might be dying for money, on the contrary the stinking rich businessman, who travels in an Audi everday might have some other issue that is giving him sleepless nights. But once again, we all have something that still makes us want to hold on. We all have problems that are very different, but life also offers everyone something special, something beautiful to hold on to. It's only when we turn a blind eye to these lovely things does the sadness quotient take over the happiness quotient.
If you are sad, trust me every one else is also going through something which is very similar to your situation. Our priorities are different, which makes it appear as if the other man's troubles are easier than ours but no, that is never true.
A happy man is the one who doesn't allow this worm of sadness to dig into his apple of happiness.
Happiness is all in the mind. Not everyone can do this, if you've been able to; I salute you. {P.S: I still haven't} but what's the harm in trying?
